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Insights and Inspiration

Reflections About Love, Life and What It Means To Live Consciously

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Relationships

I Don't Like To See My Wife Cry: When Your Partner's Emotions Overwhelm Your Nervous System

"I don't like seeing her cry" sounds like care—but it's often about YOUR discomfort. When her emotions trigger your threat response, intimacy dies. Here's what's really happening and how to heal it.
Evelyne L. Thomas
February 9, 2026
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Relationships

Do You Actually Feel Safe In Love? The Controversial Question No One Wants To Ask on Valentine's Day

Love without safety is pretty packaging around pain. This Valentine's, ask hard questions: Do I feel safe? Does my partner? What do I do when afraid? What can I change? Creating safety is mutual work—learn how.
Evelyne L. Thomas
February 8, 2026
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13
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Relationships
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
2026
New Year Resolutions

When New Year's Expectations Become Anxiety: Understanding the Parts That Sabotage Our Goals

New Year goals fail by February—not from lack of willpower, but because internal protective parts sabotage change. Take this quiz to identify your pattern and finally understand why your resolutions crumble.
Evelyne L. Thomas
January 5, 2026
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15
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Relationships

How Can Therapy Help You Reconnect and Set Meaningful Goals - Year-End Relationship Reflection

As the year ends, you might want to reflect on your relationship progress and set meaningful intentions for growth. Whether you're in couples therapy or working on your relationship individually, this moment offers a powerful opportunity for renewed connection and hope.
Evelyne L. Thomas
December 6, 2025
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7
min read
Mental Health
Relationships

I Am Mongolia - Lessons in Humility, Resilience, and the Wild Heart

A soul-shaping journey through Mongolia’s chaos, silence, and sacred wilderness—where control dissolves, resilience awakens, and love learns to let go.
Evelyne L. Thomas
October 8, 2025
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12
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Relationships

Who Am I in Relationships? Understanding Your True Self in Love

Do you recognise yourself in your relationship? Many people lose their authentic self in love, operating from old survival patterns instead of genuine connection. Discover who you really are.
Evelyne L. Thomas
October 8, 2025
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